In this blog we have been dishing out powerful tips on how to get your relationship on track.Most of these tips have been emphasizing on rekindling the romance in your relationship.Now is a great opportunity for every one to take their relationship to the next level."Valentine's Day Gift" can be that days gift to say go...

With the great economic depression
we are hoping the stimulus package is what will save the economy right.Where will i have my own stimulus package to kick start or save my relationship?(be careful you are thinking so loud i can hear what you are thinking).I can't blame you the economic depression is making us all think like that too.

Now i want you to consider this free"Valentine's Day Gift ideas"as you relationship stimulus package.Please when you get this relationship stimulus package do not celebrate Valentines day like an obligation rather than a celebration.

The first package is a self made coupons.
All you have to do is create a self made coupon or go to AmericanGreetings(it is FREE)and create a self made printable coupon.This self coupons can Cary offers such as(free manicure, free facial, free foot rub, free I'm Sorry, free day with the guys, free wash and wax, free 'I don't want to have to go to ________, free to do what I want to do day,etc You get the point.

The second package is the spell it out.
This is just a simple way of making your partner have a smile on his or her face before meeting you for a romantic dinner any were of your choice.For example you lover is out for work or you send him/her out for an errant just so you have enough time to plan out your "Valentine's Day Gift".As soon as your partner is out you can by leaving a note with the spelling "I LOVE YOU"on the floor just inside the front door.Then drop other notes(I MISSED YOU,MY WORLD WILL STOP MOVING WITH OUT YOU etc) around were you know for show your partner will visit as soon as he/she returns(the kitchen,bath etc).Then the last note is a description to the place were you most have plant a romantic dinner for two.

The next relationship stimulus package for Valentine's Day is for those in a distance relationship.This one is called "VALENTINES IN A BOX".You can post a box full of the ideas on how you would have spent the romantic day with him/her.A "VALENTINES IN A BOX" can be pact up in this order first
-a note of regret not being able to spend the day with him/her.
-Then candles and a bottle of wine (candle light dinner).

- The next a movie with a note attached to it saying how you would spend the night cuddled in each others arms watching a movie.
-Finally with a note explaining how you would end the evening cuddled up reminiscing over the "story" of how your love has grown. And of course ...fill every empty space.
With a gratifying and inexpensive relationship stimulus package like this to kick start or rekindle your relationship with the opportunity taken of giving a"Valentine's Day Gift" no one and i mean no one should complain of an economic depression or that they do not know how to bring back the romance in their relationship.

So here is the question at hand...

Is valentine's day the most or least romantic day of the year for you and why?

Go on the comment box and drop down what you think

At Christmas Give Your All

At this Christmas season we should give ourselves a present. We give money to the guys in Santa suits ring the bells in the mall, we give small secret Santa gifts at the office and most of us have our favorite charities we give too over the Christmas season. Our kids usually get spoiled rotten, even after we say they can’t have this or that. Parents, friends and family all get their little love gift from us and most of all; our partners get gifts from us.

We give out money, cards, gifts and love. By the time Christmas day rolls around we are so worn out and exhausted we can’t find anything else to give and we don’t have the energy to do it. Most of us have a list and we check it twice so that we don’t forget uncle John or great-aunt Edna. The paper-boy, the secretary, the teachers and the mailman all want their piece of us.

The TV is filled with advertisements showing big-eyed, starving children or under privileged families living on nothing and expecting us to help some more. This is all well and good but it can leave us tired, bewildered and cranky. So take some time out for you, and some time for your relationship.

What is it that makes you happy? Is there something you would like just for yourself, a massage, a nap or a long leisurely soak? What about for your partner and your relationship? You know it is not a selfish gesture to take some thing for yourself; in fact it is a smart thing to do. The more you feel relaxed, refreshed and rejuvenated the better others will feel around you.

The biggest piece of advice I can give you for your relationship is take some time together. Make plans for an intimate evening over the holidays, a quiet lunch or coffee. At all times just be there for each other, to listen, to commiserate, to validate. Be ready at times to put your plans on the back burner for the moment and just be with your partner. Thomas S Monson has said; “He who gives money, gives much; he who gives time, gives more, but he who gives of himself gives all.”

Be prepared to give your all this season to help make your partner feel cherished and loved.

Dallas Munkholm, B.A., B.Com., R.P.C.
Professional Counselor & Life Coach

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