There are many people in the world who cannot help Roland because they, too, cannot afford to. That's why Roland has always made many things free, including free chat.

Roland has to pay for internet service, the free chat service, and radio time. Currently Roland is in need of a a newer computer (his are many years old) and a camera to make better videos.

How you can help.

Every penny of every donation goes to help others.

Make a donation to help Roland. The easiest way is using a credit card at the Paypal donate button. Or send a check to Roland. 

Remember, everyone who makes a donation of any amount gets a free ebook of your choice sent as a pdf attachment to an email.  

So get your free ebook and help Roland too.

Would you like to read The Myths and Mysteries of Marriage?
or Putting the Forever Back in Love?

Just make a donation of any amount and Roland will send you your eBook as a pdf attachment to an email right away. 


 


"Roland, thank you so much for your book. 
The advice is very practical, and the book is filled with some beautiful spirituality too. I spent over a thousand dollars to register and fly to an out of town seminar  I could have saved the thousand and got your book instead."  Suzy - San Bernardino  




"The perfect book for troubled couples with different type of problems   .  .   .
 I can assure it will be one of the better books I have ever read."    review of The Myths and Mysteries of Marriage 


Based on over 20 years of counseling couples and answering questions on the radio. Roland tackles the tough questions with humor, discernment, and refreshing honesty. From the Garden of Eden to the 21st century, he’s got relationships covered. 

Putting the Forever Back in Love - Advanced Concepts in Relationship Building

 

To make a donation and get a free eBook, just go to our eBook page. There you can preview and decide which free book you want.

 Here is the link to our eBook page 



Please help if you can.  You can also click below to use Paypal and  to make a donation and get your free eBook. As soon as Paypal emails me that you made a donation of any amount, I will send you an email to find out which free eBook you would like.

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Hello, everyone!

Just for the holidays, send me a donation of any amount and you will receive your free eBook (such as The Myths and Mysteries of Marriage)

and also a Bonus Gift of your choice!



Choose one of the two free bonus gifts. 




I have a newly revised edition of Santa's Take on Parenting: Secrets from the North Pole.

Santa Claus has finally spoken on the subject of parenting. Who is better suited to give advice than the one who has brought joy and delight to children for as long as anyone can remember?

.In this modern day Santa story for parents, the reader follows Santa and Mrs. Claus as they work with a couple of kids who come to stay with them. 

The results are positive and inspirational, as Santa teaches by example how patience and creativity can make parenting a lot more fun and easy."In this fun filled educational book, the author introduces innovative parenting strategies by using the power of story telling to take the reader on a fictional visit with Santa and Mrs. Claus. 

What others are saying about Santa's Take on Parenting

"Every parent should read this book."
--Suzy, real estate broker, San Francisco, CA

"Your book is great and should go over well."
Dee, principal, Anderson, CA


“Santa's Take on Parenting" is a real find. Santa's Take will make learning about parenting fun and easier for lots of busy parents.— Mary, parent educator, Emeryville, CA.

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“Whimsical" After I read Santa's Take on Parenting, I gave a copy to my adoptive and foster parent agency to have in their lending library. — Alicia, mother of three, Northern California



.What does Santa have to say about homework, discipline, and chores?

Click here to preview 

Then come right back here to get your eBook sent to you 





Here's my other gift you can choose. 

Homemakers, moms, dads, singles, and health conscious people everywhere - As my gift, you can read my Happy Home Healthy Living Guide. 

It can easily be printed as an 11X17 poster (or larger) to hang on your wall and refer to as a daily reminder .

It contains over 100 helpful hints about buying produce, filtering water, best types of pots and pans, and much more.

Hey, I know we are all busy. We want to eat the best and avoid iffy things, but no one has taken the time to tell you because they didn't know either. Now you can get my list and hang it up on the wall as a small poster.

Click here to preview and then come back here to get your poster pdf sent to you



Remember you can choose one as a bonus when you make a donation of any amount. 

You will receive an eBook pdf (such as The Myths and Mysteries of Marriage) and also the bonus gift of your choice.


Okay, now just choose one of the bonus gifts - 
Santa's Take on Parenting
or my Happy Home Healthy Eating Guide
and make a donation of any amount at safe and secure Paypal
to get your free eBook of your choice AND a free bonus gift

As soon as I hear from Paypal about your donation, I will contact you by email to find which eBook and bonus gift you would like to get right away.
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New Year Special

For a donation of $5 or more, get my 315 page relationships ebook The Myths and Mysteries of Marriage 

and 

as a special bonus you will also get my fun story (and parenting resource) 

Santa's Take on Parenting 


In other words, you will get two ebooks sent to you by email 

The Myths and Mysteries of Marriage 

and 

Santa's Take on Parenting

As soon as Paypal informs me of your donation, I will send both books as a pdf attachment to an email.

Your donation will help to keep this blog going. 



Hello everyone. These are two books that I think you should have on your shelf (or on your computer, android or Kindle).

The Myths and Mysteries of Marriage
is my most popular book and it covers the basic important stuff like no other book.

Santa's Take on Parenting -
the most fun parent education book ever written. It reads like a story and has dozens of parenting tips.


Now here is the good part!


 Remember that I have a long standing offer. You can get any one of my ebooks sent to you by email as a token of my appreciation when you make a donation of any amount.

Many people don't know that I am a volunteer. I buy the airtime and internet time in order to be there to help people. Soooooo, any donation (yes, even a small one like $2 or $5 is really appreciated by me).

So to take advantage of this offer, get a free eBook, and help keep this blog going--all at the same time--just click here and choose a book. then make a donation at safe and secure Paypal and you will get your gift eBook right away!!!


Why do couples argue?
How can we put the sparkle back in our marriage?
How can we communicate better?
I’m a Christian but my boyfriend is not.
What is the difference between courtship and casual dating?
My wife asked me to leave.
Why are men the way we are?
What does my wife want?
Can we reconcile?
My wife cheated on me – now what?

Based on over 20 years of counseling couples and answering questions on the radio. Roland tackles the tough questions with humor, discernment, and refreshing honesty. From the Garden of Eden to the 21st century, he’s got relationships covered.











"Roland, thank you so much for your book. 
When I heard that you are a pastor, I hesitated to order it because I'm not into religion.  But because I wanted to learn more about why I can't stop resenting my husband so much, I went ahead and got the book. I'm so glad that I did. The advice is very practical, and the book is filled with some beautiful spirituality too. I spent over a thousand dollars to register and fly to an out of town seminar  I could have saved the thousand and got your book instead."  Suzy - San Bernardino    

"The perfect book for troubled couples with different type of problems   .  .   .
 I can assure it will be one of the better books I have ever read."    review of The Myths and Mysteries of Marriage 

Now available in Kindle!




Get a free eBook, and help keep this blog going--all at the same time--just click here and choose a book. then make a donation at safe and secure Paypal and you will get your gift eBook right away!!!   




New Year Special

For a donation of $5 or more, get my 315 page relationships ebook The Myths and Mysteries of Marriage 

and 

as a special bonus you will also get my fun story (and parenting resource) 

Santa's Take on Parenting 


In other words, you will get two ebooks sent to you by email 

The Myths and Mysteries of Marriage 
and 
Santa's Take on Parenting

As soon as I find out about your donation, I will send both books as a pdf attachment to an email.

Your donation will help to keep this blog going. Your donation also helps others because I use part of the money to fund scholarships for people who cannot afford my books or online coaching.

Just Click here to make your donation using safe and secure Paypal

Santa and Mrs. Claus are master mentors when it comes to parenting. Want a good read? Would you like to follow Santa and Mrs. Claus as they deal with parenting issues with love and wisdom? 

 Santa Claus has finally spoken on the subject of parenting. Who is better suited to give advice than the one who has brought joy and delight to children for as long as anyone can remember? In this fictional account, Santa commissioned author and lecturer Roland Trujillo to publish this book after granting an interview with him at the North Pole. 

What are "time outs Santa Style?" 

How does Santa handle discipline and communication issues? 

What's on Santa's do's and don'ts list? 

What is Santa's secret to making chores fun and easy? 

What does Santa say to parents about getting off to a good start? 

You'll find the answers to these questions and more in this book, destined to become a classic. Roland's new book is a Santa story for grownups with many teachable moments. Your kids will listen when you say "Santa says."

 Can't wait? - preview free now in Kindle

It's better than attending a class and you don't even have to leave home or use any gas.


I will be happy if Santa helps improve your relationship with your child.

"Dr. Roland Trujillo has written the book (now at Amazon.com) on alternatives to spanking. It is called Santa's Take on Parenting: Secrets from the North Pole. It will actually mentor you in learning how to apply patience and wisdom in working with your kids. It is also one of the sweetest books ever written and is right up there with Miracle on 34th Street as an all time reminder of what love is all about. "

"Little kids don't need discipline, they need direction and redirection. They need watching with love, kindness, and patience. Older kids need the loving presence of an involved aware parent. They need mentoring, coaching, and a parent who sets a good example. I'm going to tell you the truth. Time outs or spanking are poor substitutes for patience and wisdom.
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I know that if I can convince you that patience works, both you and your child will be much happier.

What others are saying about Santa's Take
"Every parent should read this book."
--Suzy, real estate broker, San Francisco, CA

"Your book is great and should go over well."
Dee, principal, Anderson, CA
 
“Santa's Take on Parenting" is a real find. I was looking for a book that makes the case for positive and creative parenting without spanking or excessive reliance on punishment.  
I plan to provide a copy to my moms and dads who are just getting started or soon to be parents. I also wish to make it "required reading" for parents who need some coaching in positive parenting. Santa's Take will make learning about parenting fun and easier for lots of busy parents.— Mary, parent educator, Emeryville, CA.

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“Whimsical" After I read Santa's Take on Parenting, I gave a copy to my adoptive and foster parent agency to have in their lending library. — Alicia, mother of three, Northern California


Your kids will listen when you say "Santa says."
..Ideal for parents, grandparents, foster parents and anyone who loves kids..



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December 2 update. The special is over. Watch for the next one.

In the meanwhile, you can look inside Santa's Take on Parenting free. Just click here to go to Santa's Take on Parenting site..



I love you guys because you care about your relationship. If you didn't care, you would not be here.

So as my gift I am making my Santa Claus story for parents (and grand parents too, of course) free to read online as my special gift.
Thanksgiving is over.


Watch for the next special.

Preview Santa's Take at the link below (you can also find out what the temperature is at the North Pole Just click here

Santa Claus has finally spoken on the subject of parenting. Who is better suited to give advice than the one who has brought joy and delight to children for as long as anyone can remember? In this fun filled educational book, the reader follows Santa and Mrs. Claus as they work with a couple of kids who come to visit them.

The result is a heart warming success story with many teachable moments.

This book is for parents, grandparents, foster parents, and anyone who loves kids. "This book is a fun read and makes a great gift." What are "time outs Santa Style?" How does Santa handle discipline and communication issues?

What's on Santa's do's and don'ts list?

What is Santa's secret to making chores fun and easy?

What does Santa say to parents about getting off to a good start?

You'll find the answers to these questions and more in this book, destined to become a classic.

Roland's new book is a Santa story for grownups with many teachable moments. Your kids will listen when you say "Santa says." This book is for parents, grandparents, foster parents, parents-to-be, and anyone who loves kids.

A fun and informative read for yourself and a great gift for someone you care about.